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NOVEMBER 19, 2002

Thankful 2002

In the spirit of the holidays...

I'm thankful to be able to do what I love. Yes, the hours are long and the pay could (certainly) be better, but at the end of the day I spend my time creating and that's all I've ever wanted to do. Of course if there are any agents/A&R folks/publishers out there who want to help me reach a larger audience, well, I can be reached at...

I'm thankful to have made it a whole year without missing a single column. Maybe a few of the deadlines were a little squishy but in the end there are 26 columns in 52 weeks. Well, okay, technically the year isn't over yet....

I'm thankful for new Calphalon pans and Henkels knives. They make cooking a real joy - well, as joyful as it can be when you have a hack like me concocting recipes.

I'm thankful for the continued support of friends, family and fans during what has been a difficult year professionally. Singing is something that has always come naturally to me, and having spent the last 12 months struggling to do what I love has been emotionally draining. I'm happy to report that things are finally on an upswing and I'm singing at about 80 percent. And you thought the new album was overdue LAST year...

I'm thankful that Dave Barry apparently had never read any of the columns I wrote discussing his age.

I'm thankful for the opportunity to watch my daughter evolve into a real person. It's amazing to continue to watch as she grows into her own personality. Her sense of humor and curiosity are a constant source of amazement and amusement. Now if she'd only pause once and a while between non-stop rapid-fire sentences, I might be able to finish a complete thought....

I'm thankful that I continue to meet people who inspire me to reach beyond what I think I'm capable of.

I'm thankful for an amazing bunch of friends that I've known since college. We recently spent some time in Key West together promoting a site we all contribute to (www.keylimecafe.com) and even after 14 years, we're still close.

I'm thankful that my daughter wants "one more hug" before bed, even if it is simply a ruse designed to stall bedtime a moment longer....

I'm thankful for the friends I have who are willing to give me honest, straightforward advice when it comes to my creative endeavors. Folks like Ralph MacDonald, Lennie Peterson, Lisa Tarry, LJ Mismas and Paul Martin are all invaluable resources as I constantly try to navigate the gray area at the intersection of art and commerce.

I'm thankful still for all of you who take the time to read this, share it with your friends, and email me with your perspective on my random thoughts. And I'm especially thankful to Shannon for her grace when I mistook her for someone else and inadvertently emailed her my home phone number....

...What are you thankful for this year?


This column © 2002 Lee Totten.