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OCTOBER 8, 2002

So-Called "Generation X"

Okay it's true - technically I am one of the many that constitutes so-called "Generation X." You know Gen-X'ers - the millions of apathetic, disaffected youth synonymous with the X Games, X Box, and the drug pronounced 'X-tacy.'

To the census folks who keep track of pesky little things like these, "Generation X" means that I'm one of the roughly 46 million people born between 1965 and 1978. Or 1961 and 1971. Or 1961 and 1981.

Regardless, the fact remains that I am a Gen-X'er and according to the advertising people it also means I love body piercing, have a short attention span, enjoy an MTV-style life, and listen to nothing but alternative rock while watching extreme sports.

Clearly the advertising people seem to have a better handle on things than the census folks. I do, in fact, have several body piercings, including a nose ring. My attention span can indeed be categorized as time-challenged, thus a column called "Ramblings" and not "clear concrete point". And it does appear that I model my life after MTV, at least if my day job of "musician" is any reflection.

Still, I bristle at the suggestion of being categorized as a "Gen-X'er," in part because the label is associated with a generation that is perceived as lazy, apathetic, and utterly incapable of accepting responsibility.

The advertising people will tell you that resisting categorization is merely another Gen-X trait. They say that we don't like to be defined and labeled. Stupid advertising people - always knowing things about us.

In this case, however, I'm bothered less by the label than by the fact that I feel it is inaccurate.

Maybe around the time most newspapers and pop culture media started to identify Gen-X'ers as so-called "Generation X" we were lazy, disaffected and apathetic. Then again, we were teenagers and although I'm no sociologist, it seems that historically every generation of teens have been considered lazy, disaffected and apathetic by their elders. Well, maybe not the Cleaver-esque teens of the 1950s but then they wore fancy sweaters and went to sock hops. Freaks.

The reality is that many of us in so-called "Generation X" are now 30-somethings. Yes, we love our rock and roll, body piercings and tattoos, but we're also husbands and parents responsible for supporting our families and loved ones. We're politically aware and socially conscious, even while we still wonder whether or not our voice matters. We have a strong work ethic, although having watched many of the boomers who spend 40 years with a company get unceremoniously fired when times got tough, we're not nearly as employer loyal. Apathetic and disaffected? More like pragmatically cynical realists.

Maybe it's true that we're more laid back than the previous generations. Admittedly, we like to have our fun. But in the end every one of us in so-called "Generation X" is simply trying to figure out where we, as individuals, fit into the world. If that happens to involve a nose ring or some loud guitars, well, so be it.



This column © 2002 Lee Totten.